Better
Not Bitter
If we are not thankful then we can become bitter. If we are not thankful,
then it becomes too easy to sit around and ponder the question: why me?
Dr. Jim Moore, pastor of St. Luke’s UMC in Houston wrote a book entitled
"You Can Grow Bitter or You Can Grow Better". He writes that he got the
idea for the title from a young woman who once came to him in a most tragic
moment in her life. She had tears in her eyes and her knuckles were white
as she twisted a handkerchief. She had just received word that her
twenty-six year old husband had been killed in a farming accident, leaving
her alone with three pre-school age children. One moment he was alive and
vibrant, the next moment gone. "I don't know how I am going to be able to
get along without him," she sobbed. "But I do know one thing. I can either
get bitter or I can get better."
One way that we can get better rather than bitter is to develop a thankful
heart. We must learn to be grateful to the Lord with whom we shall spend
eternity. Our morning prayer should always begin: O Thou who has given me
so much, I pray that you give me yet one more thing--a grateful heart.[1]
Today I want to talk to you about the life of King of Judah named Asa. The meaning of the name "Asa" itself is unclear but it is associated with healer and injurious. Asa, rruled 41 years. He was the grandson of Reheboam, son of Abijah, and the father of Jehoshaphat. Unlike his father, he is said to have done what was pleasing in the eyes of the Lord. [2]But he is not one of whom it could be said "he finished well."
We can divide
Asa's life into three telling parts: If we are not thankful then we can become bitter. If we are not thankful,
then it becomes too easy to sit around and ponder the question: why me?
Dr. Jim Moore, pastor of St. Luke’s UMC in Houston wrote a book entitled
"You Can Grow Bitter or You Can Grow Better". He writes that he got the
idea for the title from a young woman who once came to him in a most tragic
moment in her life. She had tears in her eyes and her knuckles were white
as she twisted a handkerchief. She had just received word that her
twenty-six year old husband had been killed in a farming accident, leaving
her alone with three pre-school age children. One moment he was alive and
vibrant, the next moment gone. "I don't know how I am going to be able to
get along without him," she sobbed. "But I do know one thing. I can either
get bitter or I can get better."
One way that we can get better rather than bitter is to develop a thankful
heart. We must learn to be grateful to the Lord with whom we shall spend
eternity. Our morning prayer should always begin: O Thou who has given me
so much, I pray that you give me yet one more thing--a grateful heart.[1]
Today I want to talk to you about the life of King of Judah named Asa. The meaning of the name "Asa" itself is unclear but it is associated with healer and injurious. Asa, rruled 41 years. He was the grandson of Reheboam, son of Abijah, and the father of Jehoshaphat. Unlike his father, he is said to have done what was pleasing in the eyes of the Lord. [2]But he is not one of whom it could be said "he finished well."
I. The Blessed Truths learned by Asa - 2 Chronicles 14-15
II. The Bitter Root of Asa - 2 Chronicles 16:1-6
III. The Broken End of Asa - 2 Chronicles 16:7-14
I. The Blessed Truths Learned by Asa - King Asa's good start
2 Chronicles 14–16 (NKJV)
14
So Abijah rested with his fathers, and they buried him in the City of David.
Then Asa his son reigned in his place. In his days the land was quiet for ten
years.
King Abijah of
the Southern Kingdom of Judah was able to defeat King Jeroboam of the Northern
Kingdom of Israel. He was used by God to put a halt to apostate Jeroboam's
advances against the Southern Kingdom. What Abijah started his son Asa would
continue.
We should be
thankful for good fathers who produce godly sons.
2 Asa did what was
good and right in the eyes of the Lord
his God, 3 for he removed the altars of the foreign gods
and the high places, and broke down the sacred pillars and cut down the
wooden images.
Blessed
Truth #1 - Do what's good and right.
One
commentary states:
You
can do that which is good, but it will not necessarily be right. You can pray,
and that’s good, but if you’re like the Pharisees who prayed simply to be
heard by men or to fulfill some
obligation, it’s not right if your motives are wrong. Giving is good, but if
you give like the Pharisees, simply to
receive the applause and approval of men, you’re missing the mark entirely. Witnessing is good, but if you’re
witnessing simply to add another
notch to your Bible, that’s not right. Asa did that which was both good and
right, and the result was
quietness in the land.[3]
4 He
commanded Judah to seek the Lord
God of their fathers, and to observe the law and the commandment.
Blessed
Truth #2 - Encourage others to seek the LORD and follow His word.
In
encouraging others to seek the Lord and follow His Word Asa was creating and
environment of revival and rest conducive to enjoying the blessings of the
Lord.
5 He
also removed the high places and the incense altars from all the cities of
Judah, and the kingdom was quiet under him.
Blessed
Truth #3 - Clean out those things detrimental to following the LORD and enjoy
God's peace.
Jesus
spoke of heart soil in which weeds choked off the fruitfulness of the seed of
His word (Matthew 13). It's always best to simplify life so that distractions
and potential temptations are kept to a minimum.
6 And he built fortified
cities in Judah, for the land had rest; he had no war in those years, because
the Lord had given him rest. 7 Therefore
he said to Judah, “Let us build these cities and make walls around them,
and towers, gates, and bars, while the land is yet before us,
because we have sought the Lord
our God; we have sought Him, and He has given us rest on every side.” So
they built and prospered. 8 And Asa had an army of three
hundred thousand from Judah who carried shields and spears, and from Benjamin
two hundred and eighty thousand men who carried shields and drew bows; all
these were mighty men of valor.
Blessed
Truth #4 - Use times of peace to prepare for future battles.
Asa
didn't lounge around and do nothing when things were going well. He used his
time of rest and peace to prepare for the future battles and challenges that he
knew were a part of life and would inevitably come.
Even
though King Asa started well and was doing the right thing to get the people
back on track with God, it didn't mean he wouldn't face opposition or a trial. God allows trials and difficulties into our
lives because trials are what test and build our faith (cf. James 1:2-5; 1
Peter 1:6-9).
9 Then
Zerah the Ethiopian came out against them with an army of a million men and
three hundred chariots, and he came to Mareshah. 10 So Asa went
out against him, and they set the troops in battle array in the Valley of
Zephathah at Mareshah. 11 And Asa cried out to the Lord his God, and said, “Lord, it is nothing for You to
help, whether with many or with those who have no power; help us, O Lord our God, for we rest on You, and in
Your name we go against this multitude. O Lord,
You are our God; do not let man prevail against You!”
Blessed Truth #5 - Cry out to God in times of trial
and understand that great obstacles are
opportunities for our great God to work.
Asa passes this test with flying colors. When opposed
by overwhelming enemy odds he cries out to the Lord. That's what we should do
in every difficulty. Cry out to God for help and direction.
I like the note from Pastor Chuck Smith on verse 11
from the Word for Today Study Bible:
"Asa
cried, 'LORD, it is nothing for You to help.' Difficulty must always be measured by the
capacity of the agent that is doing the work. If God helps us that's all we
need. Nothing is too hard for God.
That's encouraging!
12 So
the Lord struck the Ethiopians
before Asa and Judah, and the Ethiopians fled. 13 And Asa and
the people who were with him pursued them to Gerar. So the Ethiopians
were overthrown, and they could not recover, for they were broken before the Lord and His army. And they carried away
very much spoil. 14 Then they defeated all the cities around
Gerar, for the fear of the Lord
came upon them; and they plundered all the cities, for there was exceedingly
much spoil in them. 15 They also attacked the livestock
enclosures, and carried off sheep and camels in abundance, and returned to
Jerusalem.
Blessed Truth #6 - Understand that God is faithful and
He will bless and wants to bless beyond our expectations.
God is faithful! Be thankful for God's faithfulness. In
the New Testament Paul is inspired to record a prayer for the church in Ephesus
and at the end of the prayer he burst forth with a blessed truth of God's
ability and willingness to bless us:
·
Ephesians
3:20–21 (NKJV) - 20 Now
to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think,
according to the power that works in us, 21 to Him be
glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.
God can and wants to do "exceedingly abundantly
above all that we ask or think" in prayer. Our problem is that we often
get in the way of that.
The Promise of God
15
Now the Spirit of God came upon Azariah the son of Oded. 2 And
he went out to meet Asa, and said to him: “Hear me, Asa, and all Judah and
Benjamin. The Lord is with
you while you are with Him. If you seek Him, He will be found by you; but if
you forsake Him, He will forsake you. 3 For a long time Israel has
been without the true God, without a teaching priest, and without law; 4 but
when in their trouble they turned to the Lord
God of Israel, and sought Him, He was found by them. 5 And in
those times there was no peace to the one who went out, nor to the one
who came in, but great turmoil was on all the inhabitants of the lands. 6 So
nation was destroyed by nation, and city by city, for God troubled them with
every adversity. 7 But you, be strong and do not let your hands
be weak, for your work shall be rewarded!”
Blessed
Truth #7 - "If you seek Him, He will
be found by you; but if you forsake Him, He will forsake you."
If you turn your
back on God you are headed for turmoil. If you turn to the Lord, you may still
experience trials, but God will strengthen us and bring us through.
8 And
when Asa heard these words and the prophecy of Oded the prophet, he took
courage, and removed the abominable idols from all the land of Judah and
Benjamin and from the cities which he had taken in the mountains of Ephraim;
and he restored the altar of the Lord
that was before the vestibule of the Lord.
9 Then he gathered all Judah and Benjamin, and those who dwelt
with them from Ephraim, Manasseh, and Simeon, for they came over to him in
great numbers from Israel when they saw that the Lord his God was with him.
10 So
they gathered together at Jerusalem in the third month, in the fifteenth year
of the reign of Asa. 11 And they offered to the Lord at that time seven hundred bulls
and seven thousand sheep from the spoil they had brought. 12 Then
they entered into a covenant to seek the Lord
God of their fathers with all their heart and with all their soul; 13 and
whoever would not seek the Lord
God of Israel was to be put to death, whether small or great, whether man or
woman. 14 Then they took an oath before the Lord with a loud voice, with shouting
and trumpets and rams’ horns. 15 And all Judah rejoiced at the
oath, for they had sworn with all their heart and sought Him with all their
soul; and He was found by them, and the Lord
gave them rest all around.
16 Also
he removed Maachah, the mother of Asa the king, from being queen mother,
because she had made an obscene image of Asherah; and Asa cut down her obscene
image, then crushed and burned it by the Brook Kidron.
So deep was Asa's commitment to the Lord that he did
what was right in the sight of the Lord even
when it meant going against his grandmother.
17 But
the high places were not removed from Israel. Nevertheless the heart of Asa was
loyal all his days.
Asa's heart was loyal to God but the people's heart
was not completely loyal to God. A leader can walk a holy life, but there is a
responsibility for the people to follow his lead.
And even though there was still work to be done, God
spoke of Asa's heart as loyal.
18 He
also brought into the house of God the things that his father had dedicated and
that he himself had dedicated: silver and gold and utensils. 19 And
there was no war until the thirty-fifth year of the reign of Asa.
Asa brought the Temple utensils out of storage and
put them back where they belonged. He was getting the house of God in order.
And God gave him rest "until the
thirty-fifth year of the reign of Asa."
Blessed Truth #8 - Worship is the right environment to
express the thanks God deserves and to enjoy the presence of the Lord together.
It's good to
gather together to thank the Lord. It's good when a leader leads his people in
restoration of a relationship with God. It's good to gather to worship the Lord
and rejoice in His presence; to give thanks to the Lord. That's what Asa does
here.
II. The Bitter Root of Asa - King Asa’s Problems
begin with his Treaty with Syria
In the New Testament book of Hebrews it states:
·
Hebrews
12:14–15 (NKJV) - 14 Pursue peace with all people, and
holiness, without which no one will see the Lord: 15 looking
carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of
bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled;
King Asa was living a blessed
life and walking strong with the Lord, until he took his eyes off the Lord.
Then everything went downhill fast. We shouild take this as a word of warning.
16
In the thirty-sixth year of the reign of Asa, Baasha king of Israel came up
against Judah and built Ramah, that he might let none go out or come in to Asa
king of Judah.
Everything was
going along smoothly until here carnal sister to the north, led by king Baasha,
came against Judah. Baasha set u pa blockade against Judah. This blocked trade
routes.
The armies of
Israel led by king Baasha were a less formidable problem than the million man
army of the Ethiopians. This led to the first part of Asa's problem:
ASA DIDN'T THINK THIS PROBLEM WAS BIG ENOUGH
TO WARRANT GOD'S INVOLVEMENT. But that is a HUGE mistake.
No problem is too big AND NO PROBLEM IS TOO
SMALL to seek God's direction and help with it. Any problem big or small,
that we fail to seek God's direction and help with, inevitably becomes a BIG
problem.
What would king
Asa do? Last time, when the Ethiopians came out against him and were a million
strong, Asa cried out to the Lord. What did he do now?
2 Then Asa brought silver
and gold from the treasuries of the house of the Lord and of the king’s house, and sent to Ben-Hadad king of
Syria, who dwelt in Damascus, saying, 3 “Let there be a
treaty between you and me, as there was between my father and your father. See,
I have sent you silver and gold; come, break your treaty with Baasha king of
Israel, so that he will withdraw from me.”
Asa had experienced
a period of prosperity. He had some extra cash on hand. So what did he do in
response to Baasha's blockade? He didn't seek the Lord, he paid his Syrian
neighbor Ben-Hadad to go up against Baasha and do his dirty work for him. Asa
acted lazily. He acted in his flesh. He took the easy way out. The second part
of Asa's problem was:
ASA RELIED ON MONEY AND A HUMAN RESOURCE INSTEAD OF FIRST SEEKING
GOD FOR DIRECTION AND HELP.
It's not that
human resources and money are necessarily bad, sinful or always the wrong
instrument to deal with our problems. It's that ASA RELIED ON MONEY AND MEN INSTEAD OF FIRST SEEKING GOD AND HIS
DIRECTION AND HELP.
4 So
Ben-Hadad heeded King Asa, and sent the captains of his armies against the
cities of Israel. They attacked Ijon, Dan, Abel Maim, and all the storage
cities of Naphtali. 5 Now it happened, when Baasha heard it,
that he stopped building Ramah and ceased his work. 6 Then King
Asa took all Judah, and they carried away the stones and timber of Ramah, which
Baasha had used for building; and with them he built Geba and Mizpah.
And guess what? IT WORKED!
And here is a great and important lesson to learn:
JUST BECAUSE
SOMETHING WORKS DOESN'T NECESSARILY MEAN IT IS GOD'S WILL.
·
Just because you steal something and don't get
caught doesn't mean it's God's will or that He approves.
·
Just because you have an affair and aren't
getting caught doesn't mean it's God's will or that He approves.
·
Just because you indulge your flesh in some way
and don't get caught doesn't mean it's God's will or that He approves.
Prayerless practices are powered
by the flesh; no matter the outcome. And when we act prayerlessly or without
seeking God, we always settle for less than God's best.
III. The Bitter End of Asa - The loss of what
might have been
7 And at that time Hanani
the seer came to Asa king of Judah, and said to him: “Because you have relied
on the king of Syria, and have not relied on the Lord your God, therefore the army of the king of Syria has
escaped from your hand.
Here
is another important lesson to learn:
WHEN WE ACT APART FROM GOD WE ALWAYS SETTLE
FOR LESS THAN GOD'S BEST.
The
Lord had intended to give Asa a mighty victory. Not only did God want to bless
Asa with a victory against Baasha, but against Ben-Hadad too! Asa's Godless
action led to half of what he might have experienced. Yes, he was successful to
a degree by relying on his own carnal strategy. But he missed out on a windfall
of God's blessing.
8 Were the Ethiopians and
the Lubim not a huge army with very many chariots and horsemen? Yet, because
you relied on the Lord, He
delivered them into your hand. 9 For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole
earth, to show Himself strong on behalf of those whose heart is
loyal to Him. In this you have done foolishly; therefore from now on you shall
have wars.”
And
here is another important lesson to learn:
GOD IS LOOKING THROUGHOUT THE EARTH FOR
THOSE WHOSE HEART IS LOYAL TO HIM SO THAT HE CAN SHOW HIMSELF STRONG ON THEIR
BEHALF. GOD IS JUST WAITING FOR THAT STEP OF FAITH, THAT LOYAL HEARTED STEP TO
SHOW HIMSELF STRONG ON OUR BEHALF.
What
do you think about that? What did Asa think of that?
King Asa's self-centered bitterness cut off further blessing
from God
10 Then
Asa was angry with the seer, and put him in prison, for he was enraged
at him because of this. And Asa oppressed some of the people at that
time.
11 Note that the acts of
Asa, first and last, are indeed written in the book of the kings of Judah and
Israel. 12 And in the thirty-ninth year of his reign, Asa
became diseased in his feet, and his malady was severe; yet in his disease he
did not seek the Lord, but the
physicians.
13 So
Asa rested with his fathers; he died in the forty-first year of his reign. 14 They
buried him in his own tomb, which he had made for himself in the City of David;
and they laid him in the bed which was filled with spices and various
ingredients prepared in a mixture of ointments. They made a very great burning
for him.
So what do we learn from this
historic account? We might say this:
·
“Every test in our
life makes us bitter or better. Every problem comes to break us or make us. The
choice is ours whether we become victim or victor.” [Author unknown]
Asa spent his last days of life willfully aloof from God.
And because of that his channel to Gods'
blessing was broken. But it didn't have to end that way. There is a
solution.
IV. The
Better Way - Cure for Bitterness
What is the solution to turning bitter into sweet; for
dealing with bitterness in life that robs us of blessing, joy and a thankful
heart? It starts with understanding the issue is in the heart. The Lord told
Asa through the prophet:
2 Chronicles 16:9 (NKJV) - 9 For
the eyes of the Lord run to and
fro throughout the whole
earth, to show Himself strong on behalf of those whose heart is
loyal to Him. In this you have done
foolishly; therefore from now on you shall have wars.”
The issue is - Is
your heart more loyal to yourself or to God?; are you willing to let go of your feelings of bitterness based on thinking
you know better than God?; Will you trust God in your life? no matter what
happens?
One last Old Testament passage holds the key:
Exodus 15:22–27 (NKJV)
22 So
Moses brought Israel from the Red Sea; then they went out into the Wilderness of Shur.
And they went three days in the wilderness and found no water. 23 Now
when they came to Marah, they could
not drink the waters of Marah, for they were bitter. Therefore the name of it was called Marah. 24 And
the people complained against Moses, saying,
“What shall we drink?” 25 So he cried out to the Lord, and the Lord showed him
a tree. When he cast it into the waters, the waters were made sweet.
There He made a statute and an ordinance
for them, and there He tested them, 26 and
said, “If you diligently heed the voice of the Lord
your God and do what is right in
His sight, give ear to His commandments and keep all His statutes, I will put none of the diseases on you which I
have brought on the Egyptians. For I am the Lord who heals you.” 27 Then
they came to Elim, where there were twelve wells of water and seventy palm trees; so
they camped there by the waters.
The Bible is filled with what are called types or symbols
of God's truth. In this record of Moses and the people of Israel they come upon
the bitter waters of Marah. So bitter were the waters that they were
undrinkable; the water was useless to quench thirst and refresh a soul. When
Moses cried out to the LORD, "the
LORD showed him a true. When he cast it into the waters, the waters were made
sweet." That "tree" is
a symbol of the cross of Christ (e.g. Galatians 3:10-13; 1 Peter 2:24). Bible
Teacher Jon Courson comments:
it is the Cross of
Calvary which still transforms bitter experiences, bitter people, bitter circumstances. How? By realizing that the
wrongs done to us, the offenses against us, the disappointments registered by us have all been paid for,
dealt with, washed clean by the blood
of Calvary.[4]
We need to put the cross of Christ in our bitter waters. We need to nail
our bitterness, resentments, unforgiveness, to the cross of Jesus. If we are
going to be broken, let our pride and
bitterness be broken at the cross. Only when we humble ourselves before God
in brokenness will the channel to God's blessing be opened for us again. That
there is such a solution should cause us to be very thankful.
We need to let the bitterness go. If we don't we will miss out on God's
best like King Asa did. He found good but he missed God's best. He lost his
joy. He lost his perspective on life and the Lord's workings. He stopped being
thankful. Don't let that happen to you! Look to the cross and be thankful. Look
to the cross and thank God that all your bitterness, regrets, indignation,
resentments, negativity, pride, prejudice, and all the stuff swimming around in
your bitter waters, put it on the cross and turn it over to Jesus and ask Him
for a thankful heart. Tell Him you are through settling for less than His best
and purpose by faith and in the power of the Spirit to walk from this point on
in the shadow of the cross of Jesus. There is blessing and thanksgiving and
bitterness that leads to brokenness. The choice is yours.
[1]
Staff, www.eSermons.com, November
2001
[2]
Complete Biblical Library Hebrew-English Dictionary - The Complete Biblical
Library Hebrew-English Dictionary – Aleph-Beth.
[3]
Courson, J. (2005). Jon Courson’s
application commentary: Volume one: Genesis–Job (p. 1178). Nashville, TN:
Thomas Nelson.
[4]
Courson, J. (2005). Jon Courson’s
application commentary: Volume one: Genesis–Job (p. 280). Nashville, TN:
Thomas Nelson.
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