“Do not marvel that I said to you, ‘You must be
born again.’” – John 3:7
If you’re an atheist death is a big black hole of
unknowing; you believe death is the end of existence. Atheists are in the
minority. If you’re an agnostic death is a mystery; you believe there is
someone, a higher authority beyond this existence but you deny it or he or she
can be known. Some people are pantheists; they believe “God” is in everything.
Others are polytheists; they believe there are many “gods.” Others are
monotheists; they believe God is one. But most people are religious. There are
religious Christians, religious Buddhists, religious Muslims, religious Hindus,
and a myriad of other religious groups. Maybe you’ve opted to be B’hai who
eclectically absorb a little bit of every religion so as to cover all the
bases. No matter who you are Jesus has a word for you. Jesus spoke of a Kingdom
of God and instructed those that follow Him to pray for this Kingdom to come.
Jesus spoke of heaven as a place of eternal
blessing in the presence of the Lord. Heaven is heaven because we are in the
presence of our Lord. He spoke of hell as a place of eternal suffering and
regret. Hell is a place of regret because the opportunity to experience eternal
blessing in the presence of the Lord is lost due to sinful rebellion against
God. Those in rebellion against God willfully stand aloof to Him. They live as
though He weren’t important or necessary. They deny the design of reality and
claim “God” is a fantasy and His revelation a myth of men. They slap away the outstretched
hand of a loving God. If they persist one day soon they will die to regret
their stubbornness and willful insubordination.
No matter who we are Jesus says, “You must be born
again.” Everyone will bow to this must do. Does that cause you to wonder, maybe
rebel, to yearn, or question? One night a very religious man came to Jesus to
inquire. The conversation that ensued led to a statement of absolute necessity
for every person. Jesus said, “You must be born again.” Why?
There was a
man of the Pharisees named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews.
What do we know about Nicodemus? The name “Nicodemus” means ruler, conqueror or conqueror of the people. The Exhaustive
Dictionary of Bible Names adds Nicodemus’ name as meaning, “Innocent blood; victor over the people,
Conqueror of the populace.” [1]
He was aptly named as he grew up to be a ruler of the people. As a “ruler
of the Jews” he was a member of the Sanhedrin, an elite ruling body of
religious leaders who oversaw the life of the people. The “Pharisees,” or separated ones, were a sect or
brotherhood of about six thousand.[2]
To be a
Pharisee meant Nicodemus was very religious. Actually, you couldn’t get more
religious than being a Pharisee. Scribes were in charge of interpreting the 613
Old Testament laws. Pharisees were committed to applying and enforcing the Old
Testament Law and that in minutest detail. But keeping the Law degenerated to a
form of godliness that lacked God’s power (2 Tim. 3:5). Pharisees were often
lax in their moral conduct (Matt. 5:20;
15:4, 8; 23:3, 14, 23, 25; John 8:7). Jesus referred to them as “vipers,” or
snakes (Matt. 3:7), like the serpent in the Garden. They were self-righteous
and proud (Matt. 9:11; Luke 7:39; 18:11, 12). Jesus came with rebuke for these representatives
of God (Matt. 12:39; 16:1–4). The Pharisees didn’t repent at the truth of Jesus
but responded with resentment. [3]
They led the plot to eliminate Jesus.
Nicodemus doesn’t appear to have followed the mold of his sect. He appears
to have been more open to the things of God than his brethren were. Nicodemus supports
Jesus in discussions with his fellow religious leaders. He advocates that Jesus
should at least be heard out (John 7:50-52). The conversation Nicodemus had
with Jesus changed his heart. How’s your heart toward Jesus?
Nicodemus was a wealthy man. He brought very costly burial lotions to
anoint Jesus’ body after His death on the cross. Nicodemus accompanied Joseph
of Arimathea who was described as “a disciple of Jesus.” The two of them
requested the body of Jesus from Pilate after Jesus’ death (John 19:38-42). The
evidence points to Nicodemus having become a disciple of Jesus. I believe Nicodemus
was born again. Are you?
2 This man came to Jesus
Nicodemus was religious, wealthy and as a ruler had a position of power. He
had it all. And yet there was something missing. And he was going to Jesus to
see if he could find that missing part. How about you? Are you religious? Are
you wealthy, even rich? Are you in a position of authority, a ruler? But do you
feel there’s something missing? Will you go to Jesus like Nicodemus did?
by night
Why did Nicodemus come to see Jesus at night?
There are a couple of possibilities. Nicodemus may have come “by night” because
he was concerned about being seen with Jesus. During the day other Jewish
rulers would be on watch to see what Jesus was doing and who was being
impressed by what He was doing. Nicodemus may have been concerned about
appearances; how it would look to others if he, a Pharisee and ruler of the
Jews was meeting with Jesus. We know that if this was the case now, that later
by John 7 Nicodemus steps out in defense of Jesus.
Nicodemus probably came at night in order to have
a private face to face meeting with Jesus. During the day Jesus was surrounded
by crowds. He had personal questions to pose to Jesus. He was seeking answers
to life’s questions. He needed privacy to
concentrate and hear clearly what Jesus would say. Here was an extraordinary
Man that Nicodemus had to talk to. What was He all about? What was He saying?
and said to
Him, “Rabbi, we know that You are a teacher come from God; for no one can do
these signs that You do unless God is with him.”
Nicodemus was a representative of others (“we”)
who were of similar spirit and inquiry toward Jesus. He respectfully refers to
Jesus as “Rabbi.” Nicodemus acknowledges Jesus as being “from God.” He
substantiates this by noting the miraculous signs Jesus had done. “No one can
do these signs that You do unless God is with him.” The miraculous signs done
by Jesus had their desired impact and influence on Nicodemus. This was true not
only of Nicodemus, but apparently of other leaders too. The Spirit was stirring
the spirit of the religious community.
3 Jesus answered and said to him, “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is
born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.”
To this Jewish leader versed in the scriptures Jesus clearly and
unequivocally states, “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again,
he cannot see the kingdom of God.” There are no shades of gray about what Jesus
is saying. This is an essential, a must if someone desires to see the kingdom
of God. Everyone must be born again!
What is the “kingdom of God” Jesus refers to here? “Kingdom” conveys the
idea of a rule. “Kingdom of God” conveys the idea of God’s rule. Jews equated
the kingdom of God with a political governmental rule of God on earth. The
apostles questioned Jesus about establishing the kingdom of God after the
resurrection (Acts 1:9-11). There will be a literal kingdom of God on earth during
the Millennium (cf. Rev. 20). But there is also a sense in which the kingdom of
God is established in the heart of a person. This is lordship.
Salvation involves Jesus as Lord in our heart (cf. Rom. 10:9). We are saved
by Gods’ grace through faith in Christ alone (Eph. 2:1-9). We aren’t saved by
our works or efforts (e.g. Titus 3:5). But any genuine, authentic, and actual
salvation results in a change of heart and life. In salvation we receive a new
heart (Ezekiel 18:31; 36:26). The unsaved are a lord to themselves. The saved
have surrendered their self-rule to God in Christ and now follow Jesus as Lord
(Rom. 10:9-10). That is the fruit of genuine salvation (Rom. 14:9; 1 Cor. 12:3;
Phil. 2:11).
When Jesus came at the incarnation He brought the Kingdom of God into the
present saying, “The kingdom of God
is at hand” (Mark 1:15). This speaks
to us about the internal aspect of God’s Kingdom, His rule in the heart – “The Kingdom of God is within you” (Luke 17:21b). Therefore, the Kingdom
of God is received through repentance and believing the gospel (Mark 1:15; cf.
also Mat. 3:2).
The kingdom of God involves a spiritual dimension of life lived “in the
Holy Spirit” (Rom. 14:17). In John 3 Jesus elaborates on this in His
conversation with Nicodemus by saying, “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless
one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God. . . .
You must be born again. . . So is everyone who is born of the Spirit” (John
3:5, 6, 8). This is why there is no equivocation or exception here; everyone must
be born again!
The Kingdom of God is “everlasting” (2 Peter 1:5-11). It’s something we should
anticipate and look forward to; yearn for. Therefore Jesus taught His disciples
to pray for God’s kingdom to come (Mat. 6:10). He taught us to pray, “Your
kingdom come. Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.” The Kingdom of
God involves God’s will being done on earth as it is in heaven. This is should
be our life priority (cf. Mat. 6:33). The
New Testament example is that God’s people work together in fellowship for the
Kingdom of God (Col. 4:11). One way we do this is through unity in prayer.
The message of the Kingdom of God is to be preached and proclaimed
everywhere (Mat. 24:14). We see the beginning of this in Acts (Acts 8:12). The
Kingdom of God is linked to “the name of Jesus Christ.” That “both men and
women were baptized” indicates believing and receiving the Kingdom of God
results in life change and an outward acknowledgement of that change.
Entering the Kingdom of God
entails that “we must through many tribulations enter the kingdom of God” (Acts
14:21-22). This “must” happen. The Kingdom involves discipleship; “strengthening the souls of the disciples, exhorting them
to continue in the faith.”
Entering the Kingdom of Christ and God requires sin be dealt with in our
lives (Eph. 5:5). Not everyone will enter this Kingdom. Some will prefer to
choose sin over holiness, self instead of God. Jesus taught that few would
enter His kingdom and many would not (cf. also Mat. 7:13-14). That’s what we
see in the world today. Entering God’s kingdom involves being delivered from
the power of darkness into a Kingdom described as ruled by “the Son of His love”
(Col. 1:13). Entering God’s Kingdom
involves a “walk worthy of God who calls you into His own kingdom and glory.”
It involves a holy life (1 Thess. 2:12). Not everyone is willing to accept
that. They are self-deceived (1 John 1:8). They call God a liar (1 John 1:10). They choose to remain in darkness and shut out
God’s light. They love their dark lives (John 3:19-21). They welcome the
blindness of the evil one (2 Cor. 4:4). There is a consequence for that.
Everyone must be born again.
Not everyone will understand
the message of the Kingdom of God. The Kingdom of God is opposed by “the wicked
one” (Matthew 13:19). This wicked one will try to snatch away information and
revelation about the Kingdom (Mark 4:10-12). He will work to thwart God’s offer
of the Kingdom to people. When God provides opportunity to turn to Him and it
is refused, He gives people over to the consequence of their decision (2 Thess.
2:10-11).
4 Nicodemus said to Him, “How can a man be born when he is
old? Can he enter a second time into his mother’s womb and be born?”
Nicodemus doesn’t ask “why” a man must be born again. Nicodemus asked,
“how” a person can be born again. Nicodemus wasn’t looking at this conversation
in a merely philosophical, intellectual or academic way. Nicodemus was seeking.
He saw something in Jesus that he didn’t have. He saw something different. He
wanted what Jesus was talking about. He wanted to be “born again.”
5 Jesus answered, “Most
assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot
enter the kingdom of God. 6 That which is
born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
Jesus makes a distinction between
physical and spiritual birth; of two births: physical “of water” and spiritual
“the Spirit.” A person can be physically alive but spiritually dead. Spiritual
life requires a spiritual birth. Unless a person experiences a second birth, a
spiritual birth, they will not enter the kingdom of God. Jesus is very clear
here: “flesh is flesh, and . . . Spirit is spirit.”
It may also be that “water” is
referring to God’s word. Elsewhere “water” is used as a type for scripture
(e.g. Eph. 5:26). Indeed later in John’s gospel Jesus tells His disciples, “You
are already clean because of the word which I have spoken to you” (John 15:3).
Peter speaks of being “
born again, . . . through the word of God which lives and abides forever” in
his first epistle (1 Peter 1:23). There can be little to no doubt that the word
of God is an integral instrument in the spiritual birth of the sinner. The
Spirit uses the word of God to convict the sinner of sin and to reveal the
gospel of Jesus Christ as the solution to their sin problem.
If you try to live God’s Kingdom life
without being spiritually born it results in the frustrating and futile and
ultimately failing way of legalism. We need the spiritual life provided by the
regeneration of the Holy Spirit. We need the spiritual fruit produced by the
Holy Spirit (Gal. 5:22-24) as well as the empowerment of the Holy Spirit to do
all God calls us to do (Acts 1:8; 2:1ff.).
7 Do not marvel
that I said to you, ‘You must be born again.’
Jesus said, “You
must be born again” (John 3:7). George Whitefield, mighty preacher of the 18th
century revivals in England and America (i.e. The Great Awakening - in
America) was frequently asked why he always preached that man must be born
again. “Why do I preach you must be born again?” said Whitefield? “Because you
must be born again!”
In this passage of
scripture Jesus is speaking about spiritual
regeneration. In this material world we look at each other and see life.
When someone dies or some form of life dies it is evident to us, e.g. it stops
breathing; it’s heart stops beating; it decomposes, etc. But there is another
dimension we don’t readily consider, the realm of the spirit. This realm is
unseen. The Bible tells us that we are not born with spiritual life but must be born again or experience a second
birth, a spiritual birth. If we do not, we are dead spiritually.
What causes this
spiritual death? Sin causes death physically, mentally, and spiritually (Rom.
6:23). Sin is living in disobedience to God. It is settling for physical
material life while neglecting or not experiencing spiritual life. If we die
physically without being “born again” we will go into an eternal existence
separate from God in a place of torment called hell where God’s just penalty
for sin and spiritual death will be properly imposed for eternity. But if we are
“born again” we will live eternally with God in a place called heaven which is
a place of endless blessing in the wonderful presence of the Lord. For this to
happen, you must experience spiritual birth, be born of the Holy Spirit, “You
must be born again.”
How can we be born
again? In the opening verses of John’s gospel he is inspired to write, “But as many as received Him, to them He gave the
right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name: 13
who were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of
man, but of God” (John 1:12-13). Being born again is turning from your sin, giving up your sinful ways,
and turning to God to receive by faith His gracious gift of salvation provided
through Jesus. Being born again is a work of God not humanity (cf. also John 6:29).
It is a work of the Holy Spirit who convicts us of sin (John 16:8-11). The
Spirit draws the sinner to the Father (John 6:44). This spiritual birth can
perplex us at times. But that is because it is an incredible work of the Holy
Spirit (John 3:7-8).
Our
church has an annual baptism at a public beach on the north shore of Long
Island. During this service on the shore I give an evangelistic open air
message. To illustrate what it means to be born of the Spirit I once scoured
the shore of the beach for a horseshoe crab shell. I used the shell to show
that we can easily observe that the horseshoe crab is dead. It isn’t breathing.
It isn’t moving. Its innards are empty leaving only a shell of what it used to
be. In this material world of ours it’s
easy for us to see that life has left this shell. But there’s more to existence
than what we can see in the material world. There is a spiritual dimension.
From
the material dimension it’s not always easy to determine if one is alive or
dead. We can sometimes mistake religious or altruistic activity for spiritual
life when in fact a person is spiritually dead. Sometimes we are mere empty
shells. Jesus said some people are tares amongst
wheat (Mat. 13:24-30). That is, some people look good on the outside but are
empty or lifeless on the inside. Jesus has so much more than that for us. Jesus
said just like we were born into the material world we also need to be born
again; born a second time spiritually. This second birth happens in the heart as
the Holy Spirit indwells us and makes Christ’s presence known.
How
can we identify spiritual life? Here are some evidences that show spiritual
life:
- Spiritual birth – John 3:6
- Hears Jesus words and believes in Him – John 5:24
- Abide in Jesus word as disciples – John 8:31-32, 47
- Knows the Jesus as Shepherd – John 10:14, 27-28
- Obedience – John 14:21
- Understanding of God’s word – John 14:26
- Personal saving relationship with Jesus – John 15:26
- Guided into God’s truth – John 16:13
- Holy Life – As the Holy Spirit lives in them – John 20:22
- Assurance of salvation – 1 John 3:24; 4:13
- Love of the Spirit – Rom. 5:5
- Fruit – Gal. 5:22-24
Read
these scriptures references. Do you have these in your life? Have you been born
of the Spirit? If not you are spiritually dead and risk spending an eternity
separate from God.
Sin is
disobeying the laws of the Holy God of love. He has created us and given a
manual (the Bible) for people to live by to experience His best in life. Those
who disregard and disobey this manual are in rebellion against God and His
enemies. Their rebellious behavior is sin and that sin causes pain, suffering,
and opposes the will of God. God who is just imposes a penalty for such sin –
eternal death. The sinner is not annihilated nor do they cease to exist if they
die in their sin. No, the consequence of sin is a dark eternal deathly
aloneness filled with regret, discomfort, torment and pain.
The
only way the death penalty for sin to be justly and righteously paid is for a
death to occur. But not just any death; since sin stains people it disqualifies
them for paying the proper death penalty. Only a perfect sinless atoning death
would suffice. Jesus, as a gift of God’s grace, went to the cross and paid that
death penalty for humankind. Jesus was made sin for us. He took our place in
His death on the cross. He is our substitute so that when we trust Him as our Savior
God accounts His death penalty paid on the cross to our account and transfers
His righteousness to us (2 Cor. 5:21). To be born again all a person therefore
has to do is turn from their sins
(repent) and by faith in Christ receive God’s gift of forgiveness based on the
death penalty Jesus paid for us.
8 The wind blows
where it wishes, and you hear the sound of it, but cannot tell where it comes
from and where it goes. So is everyone who is born of the Spirit.”
With these words Jesus says there is an operation of the Spirit that we may not be able to identify
outwardly. We may hear the sound of the wind but we can’t identify where it
comes from or where it goes. The work of a person being “born of the Spirit”
can be confounding. It can be perplexing. God is the One who works salvation
and we can’t always explain how He does it (Mark 4:26-29). Salvation is a gift
of His grace and a product of His hand at work. Like the breath of God giving
life to dry dead bones in Death Valley the Spirit can give us life (cf. Ezekiel
37).
The Holy Spirit can go places we can’t. He can go right
down into a person’s heart. He can enter their thoughts. He knows their
thoughts. He can therefore reason with them in ways we can’t. He is unlimited.
We are very limited. That is the point Jesus is making here. What is impossible
with people is very possible with the Spirit.
Jesus directs us to depend on the Holy Spirit. Jesus ascended
to heaven that the Spirit might be poured out (Acts 2:33). Jesus is “He who baptizes with the Holy
Spirit” (John 1:33). We need the Spirit’s teaching. A disciple is a learner. We
can’t learn without the Spirit (cf. John 14-16). We need the baptism with the
Holy Spirit for power to witness and serve Jesus (Acts 1:4-5, 8). The Spirit
purifies our heart. The Spirit empowers us to serve (Acts 15:8-9). We need to
fully surrender to Jesus and let the Spirit control us. This is called a baptism
because involves a total immersion of self in the Holy Spirit. We abandon our will
to the Spirit (Rom. 8). We need the power of the Spirit to be powerfully used
by God.
Have you been born again?
Jesus said if you want to spend eternity with Him “You must be born again.” No
matter who you are, whether you believe in God or not, you must be born again.
It’s a work the Holy Spirit will do in you. All you need do is turn from your
life of sin to God through faith in Jesus Christ. Ask God to forgive your sin
based on Jesus atoning death on the cross. Receive His gift of forgiveness.
Receive the new eternal life of the Holy Spirit who will indwell you. But
whatever you do, be born again. Everyone
must do this.
[1]Smith,
Stelman ; Cornwall, Judson: The Exhaustive Dictionary of Bible Names.
North Brunswick, NJ : Bridge-Logos, 1998, S. 185
[2]Courson,
Jon: Jon Courson's Application Commentary. Nashville, TN : Thomas
Nelson, 2003, S. 457
[3]Easton,
M.G.: Easton's Bible Dictionary. Oak Harbor, WA : Logos Research
Systems, Inc., 1996, c1897