“Giving thanks always for all things to God the Father in the name of
our Lord Jesus Christ” – Ephesians
5:20
Sometimes truth gets lost in personal translation.
Many times we reinterpret words to fit our own understanding or our own plans.
We read subjectively, selectively. We read with subjective selection. We read
with a built in auto-correct or auto-edit so that if we don’t approve what we
read we instantly dismiss it. There are a lot of reasons for our doing this.
For some subjective selection is a defense
mechanism. We get our bank statement that indicates we’ve overdrawn our account
and think that just can’t be, there’s no
way I did that. We get a notice of employment termination and we respond they can’t do that. We read a blindsiding
note from a paramour who wants to end our relationship and we think no, they wouldn’t do that. We read the
results from a physical exam that has found a life threatening illness and we
think this can’t be happening. In all
these circumstances we defend against unwanted information by dismissing the
information. But we do so to our perils of reality.
For others subjective selection is the result of
rebellion. We read something and dismiss it because we don’t like what we see.
We see a notice of a dress code and we take pride in disregarding it. We see,
“No bare feet,” and we walk in with bare feet. We see a posted speed limit and
callously step on the accelerator. We see “no smoking” and we steam and smoke
away. We see signs limiting alcohol consumption and we drink away. The sinful
nature is an inherent anarchist.
But admittedly some signs demand dismissing. We
live in a better world because of those who defiantly disregarded signs that
read, “No Blacks allowed,” or “Jews need not apply.” One day we will see signs like
“no Christians wanted” or “Christians need not apply,” or “unisex bathroom.” We
will one day see some form of “if you don’t accept same-sex marriage, lesbians,
homosexuality, bi-sexuality, transgender you need not enter here.” When we see
such words we will need to “be strong in the Lord and in the power of His
might. . . . [and] stand against the wiles of the devil” (Ephesians 6:11).
And for others subjective selection is the result
of misunderstanding. Maybe we read something and we just don’t understand what
the message is. We don’t understand that chemistry formula or how an element is
constructed and we cast its worth aside. We’re confused at the form at the
Department of Motor Vehicles. We can’t understand the tax code. Who can figure
out the car manual? Who can understand (or has the time to read) that online
explanation for the newest software or latest IPhone agreement? In this age of
information it’s hard to understand and easy to misunderstand.
But for whatever reason, when we come to something
in God’s word that we don’t like or can’t accept, or don’t understand it’s
never a good idea to go into subjective selection mode. It’s never a good idea
to ignore what you simply view in God’s word as negative or not relevant to your
world view. It’s never appropriate to delete what you don’t like and parse verses
out of your personal interpretation. We see this in the politician’s
selectivity when it comes to quoting scripture. They quote a verse that
supports their purposes but neglect other scriptures that don’t serve their
talking points. We see this when God’s word prohibits immoral lifestyles and
people ignore or discount that part of God’s truth. They do that to excuse or
even make it appear God condones the sin He so clearly prohibits. You can’t
cherry pick God’s word.
We are not in a position to pick and choose what we
will and will not accept as God’s word. God exalts His word above His own name
(Psalm 138:2). The entirety of God’s word is truth (Psalm 119:160). God’s word
is perfect (Psalm 19:7). God’s word is “holy,” it is unique and high above any
other form of words (Psalm 119:140; Romans 1:2). God’s word is powerful
(Hebrews 4:12). God’s word is effective; it will accomplish God’s purposes
(Isaiah 55:11). God’s word defines sin, depicts its dangers and shows us how to
avoid it victoriously (Psalm 119:11; 1 Corinthians 10:13). And that is why in
His word God commands, “You shall not add to the word which I command you, nor
take from it, that you may keep the commandments of the LORD your God which I
command you” (Deuteronomy 4:2). We would be wise to accept God’s word as it is.
If we ignore, omit, purposely misinterpret, or discount something in God’s word
because we don’t like what it says, we need to understand God’s word will stand
(e.g. Matthew 24:35). Our words will fall when they hit the righteous wall of
God’s word. We will wither like grass. God’s word stands forever (Isaiah 40:8).
One example of a portion of scripture that tempts
us to question involves the circumstances in which we are to be thankful. Certainly
it isn’t wrong to wonder how God would want us to be thankful “always for all
things.” In 1 Thessalonians 5:18 it says, “in everything give thanks; for this
is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” When Paul writes this we question
what “everything” means. We are tempted to think, that can’t be. We’d like to think that the word “everything”
doesn’t really mean everything. We subtly ponder, surely God couldn’t mean for us to be thankful in times of tragedy,
pain, hardship, loss, offense, persecution . . . . But if God’s word says something, just
because we question it doesn’t mean it isn’t true. God’s word stretches our
understanding. God’s word is written from an eternal perspective. To disregard
the “everything” in this verse about thanks would rob us of one of the
transcendent glorious truths of God’s word. When God’s word says “everything,”
it means everything. That’s the truth.
Look closely at that verse in 1Thessalonians 5:18. The
“in” gives us an out. It doesn’t say we are to be thankful for all things but in all
things. In other words we may not like what is happening but we are to maintain
a spirit of thanks to God in the midst of
and through difficulties. I can understand that a bit better. I can get my
mind and heart around that instruction. But in light of the many hardships life
so frequently comes with, it’s a much harder sell to be thankful “always for
all things.” That’s what Paul says elsewhere. He is inspired to exhort his
readers “giving thanks always for all things to God the Father in the name of
our Lord Jesus Christ” (Ephesians 5:20). How is it possible for us to give
thanks “always for all things”?
There doesn’t seem to be any out or getting around
Paul’s words about giving thanks always for all things. Those words seem pretty
straightforward and almost provocative to anyone who has experienced or knows
someone who has experienced the harsh realities and trials of this life. Is
that a heartless call to those who experience pain? What about those words, should
we dismiss them; auto-edit them; auto-delete them? Is this a verse for
subjective selection? No, I don’t believe so. In fact, if you join me in
studying this verse I believe it will open the door to not only being thankful
always for all things, but it will open the flood gates of God’s joy for you. Let
me share a few things in response to these questions.
First, giving
thanks for all things is made possible by God’s grace through faith. The
phrase “giving thanks” is translated from the single Greek term eucharistountes. Not to get
grammatically technical but the grammar of this term
(Present/Active/Participle) conveys the idea of an ongoing life attitude. The
idea is to have a spirit or attitude that is always giving thanks. This is an attitude we need to actively pursue by faith. It is a
product of God’s grace.
The word from which we get this participle is eucharisteo which means to be thankful, give thanks, return thanks, or
pray. This is a word of worship. Worship involves faith expressing
thanks to God. Further, this is a compound word the root of which is charisteo. Charisteo means to give freely, bestow favor, gratify.
Charisteo is linked to the word charis
from which we get the English word “grace.” Charis means grace,
attractiveness, or unmerited
undeserved favor. For example, we are saved by God’s grace. Grace is
undeserved favor. Salvation from sin isn’t something we deserve; it is
something God offers us freely as a gift of His grace. He offers this gracious
salvation from sin in love (e.g. John 3:16; Romans 5:8). We receive God’s
gracious gift of salvation and eternal life through faith in Jesus Christ (Ephesians
2:8-9).
But the effect of God’s gracious salvation is life
encompassing. We live by grace through faith. We live “from faith to faith”
(Romans 1:17). And we live by God’s grace. Paul through whom God chose to write
about this attitude of thankfulness also was inspired to write, “But by the
grace of God I am what I am, and His grace toward me was not in vain; but I
labored more abundantly than they all, yet not I, but the grace of God which
was with me” (1 Corinthians 15:10). Do you see the sustaining grace in that
verse? Do you see how by faith Paul “labored more abundantly”? The first thing
we need to understand in “giving thanks always for all things” is that it is
something we can only do by God’s grace through faith.
Second,
giving thanks always for all things is the result of looking “to God the
Father.” God our Father is Sovereign. He is in command. He is in control.
Nothing that happens to us happens without His permission. Job was severely
tested by the devil. But the devil could do nothing to Job without God’s
permission (cf. Job 1-2). While Job was experiencing the devastating hardships
shared in the Book of Job, he, his wife and his best friends didn’t understand what God’s purpose and
plan was. We the reader are given insight in the spiritual element of these
circumstances from the very start. But Job, his wife and family and the friends
that came to help him all were unaware of
this crucial contextual information about the involvement of the devil and
spiritual warfare.
Job and his friends go back and forth throughout
the book trying unsuccessfully to decipher and make sense of the tragedy and
affliction that had come upon this righteous man Job. Job complained and even
got angry, but he continued to believe in God. Job reasons, “Shall we indeed
accept good from God, and shall we not accept adversity? (Job 2:10). Though he
was severely tested Job persisted, “Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him”
(Job 13:15). Interestingly, Job and his friends attribute all his hardship to
acts of God. God permitted the hardship but the evil instrument was the devil.
Job and his friends never consider this. Without this book maybe we wouldn’t
consider it either. The Book of Job provides us therefore with valuable insight
into reality that proves a comfort of understanding to others in history who
suffer.
Along with Job many have been brought to a place
where, though like Job they don’t understand all that is going on in their
lives, still they proclaim, “For I know that my Redeemer lives” (Job 19:25).
And also, “But He knows the way that I take; when He has tested me, I shall
come forth as gold” (Job 23:10). These are precious eternal insights. But it
isn’t until God speaks in chapter 38 that the truth comes out. And even then,
God does not provide all the insight we the reader are aware of from the first
two chapters. It isn’t until the last five chapters of a forty-two chapter book
that God thunders, “Who is this who darkens counsel by words without
knowledge?” (Job 38:2).
The point here is that even though we may not understand our life circumstances, because we do
not have all the facts that God has, we should trust Him and be thankful no
matter what. While the trials and tribulations God allowed into Job’s life
stretched him to his limits and cost him in many ways, the product of God’s
plan was a book included in His canon of holy writ that has proved to be
profoundly helpful to others throughout history who are experiencing trials and
tribulations.
Third, giving
thanks always for all things can only be done “in the name of our Lord Jesus
Christ.” In Romans 8, the pinnacle of scripture, it states, “If God is for
us, who can be against us?” (Romans 8:31b). It says that nothing can separate
us from God’s love (Romans 8:37-39). Whatever we go through in this life goes
past the approval process of God’s desk. God is writing a poem and our life is
part of the many stanzas (cf. Ephesians 2:10). God has a plan for us (cf.
Jeremiah 29:11-13). God really is for us. He has our best interests at heart.
We may not always understand that or even believe that but it is true. To prove
it God inspired, “He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us
all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things?” (Romans 8:32).
It’s not by accident that in Romans 8:32 God
mentions how He, along with His Son Jesus, “also freely gives us all things.”
Here is the basis for giving thanks for all things even when the things God
allows in our lives do not seem eligible for our being thankful. There is a far
greater purpose in life than our comfort, material prosperity, ease, and even
our health. There is a far greater
purpose in life than the comfort, material prosperity, ease and even health of
our loved ones and others as well.
God’s paramount purpose for all who follow Him is
to conform us to the likeness of Jesus (Romans 8:29). The finished poem of
which I spoke above is a poem written with lines of Christ-like followers. God
is preparing us for eternity with Him. That requires Christ-likeness. And the bottom line is that being Christ-like
involves sacrifice. Jesus came to give His life a ransom for many (Mark 10:45).
Jesus came to serve in death (Philippians 2:5-11). “Jesus wept” (John 11:35).
Jesus went to and died on the cross and shed His blood for our sins (1 Peter
1:18-19). And we are called to follow in His steps (1 Peter 2:21) and walk like
He did (1 John 2:6).
We add nothing to the saving work of Jesus. But
when we live like Him for His purposes we honor Him and our lives become a
living sacrifice of worshipful thanks to Jesus. God’s plan for us is that we
come to a place where we can say, “I have been crucified with Christ; it is no
longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the
flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me”
(Galatians 2:20). Just as Jesus loved us we must come to a place where the love
of Christ compels and motivates us (2 Corinthians 5:14-16). When you get to
that place in your walk with the Lord, you will be eternally thankful for all
things always.
Lastly, giving
thanks always for all things is a work of the Holy Spirit in us. The
context of Paul’s inspired words about giving thanks always for all things is
an exhortation to allow the Holy Spirit to work in those he was writing to.
“Therefore do not be unwise, but understand what the will of the Lord is. And
do not be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation; but be filled with the
Spirit, speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs,
singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord” (Ephesians 5:17-19). Be
wise. Don’t try and drown your sorrows with drinking or drugging. Be
continuously daily filled with the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit will put a song
in your heart. The Spirit will give us songs in the night (cf. Job 35:10; Psalm
77:6; Acts 16). Giving thanks always for all things is a work of the Holy
Spirit. It’s not something we do in our own understanding or our own strength.
Giving thanks always for all things is a product of the Spirit’s illumination.
It is the Spirit’s empowering revelation that enables us to be always thankful.
The next time you go through a trial or difficulty
remember what Peter was inspired to write – “Therefore, since Christ suffered
for us in the flesh, arm yourselves also with the same mind, for he who has
suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin, that he no longer should live the
rest of his time in the flesh for the lusts of men, but for the will of God” (1
Peter 4:1-2). Suffering doesn’t save us. Suffering does provide us with a
greater depth of understanding and ability to relate to Jesus. We draw close to
Jesus when we fellowship with Him in suffering (Philippians 3:10).
A faith untested cannot be trusted. A faith tested
true will never let you down. It will bring you closer to Jesus. It will be a
reason to be thankful. It will be a reason to rejoice. “In this you greatly
rejoice, though now for a little while, if need be, you have been grieved by
various trials, that the genuineness of your faith, being much more precious
than gold that perishes, though it is tested by fire, may be found to praise,
honor, and glory at the revelation of Jesus Christ, whom having not seen you
love. Though now you do not see Him, yet believing, you rejoice with joy
inexpressible and full of glory, receiving the end of your faith - the salvation of your souls” (1 Peter 1:6-9).
Now do you understand a bit more why God said to
give thanks always for all things? Do you see how it can be done? Now it is up
to us to present ourselves to God for help to obediently practice what God’s
word says. By God’s grace through faith let’s be “giving thanks always for all
things to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Amen!