“For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ, for it is the power of
God to salvation for everyone who believes . . . . “ – Romans 1:16a
“And such were some of you” – 1 Corinthians 6:11
Sexual sins such a pornography, fornication (any
and all sexual interaction outside of marriage), adultery,
homosexuality/lesbianism, bestiality, are rampant in our day. So deep is our
world in such sins that governments both national (e.g. the United States) and
international (e.g. United Nations) are actually passing legislation to
legalize and protect those who indulge in such sin. Laws are being passed to
justify those who indulge such sins and prevent people from discriminating
against them. It is socially anathema to speak against those living immoral
lifestyles. And standing for holiness and speaking against such immorality
is becoming more and more of a "criminal" offense. Our world is
twisted. These are days when evil is called good and good is called evil
(Isaiah 5:20). But there is a greater truth. There is a higher reality.
The acceptance of immorality as "good"
in our world today is bad enough, but the greater tragedy is that the world
refuses to see the addictive nature of immorality. Immoral thoughts and actions
release chemically addictive elements in the human body. The images of
immorality scar human memory. And the end result is slavery to the sins of
immorality. Sexual sin affects every aspect of people; body, mind, and spirit.
Sexual immorality is one of the worst addictive enslavements in our day. But
there is a way to be freed. There is a way out. You can make an exodus.
Sexual sin perverts our view of humanity reducing
people to objects not people created in the image of God. It literally dehumanizes
people. Sexual sin ruins marriages and families. It is frequently
instrument of unfaithfulness and covenant breaking. It bankrupts people
financially. People lose homes, jobs, everything to feed their sexual
appetites. All of this is an allurement of a spirit of hedonistic
"pleasure." That "pleasure," is far from God's definition
of pleasure. Sexual sin leads to the putrification of the person. But there is
a way to be purified.
This is a longer than usual study. It’s longer
because it deals with one of the most egregious, debilitating, prevalent and
widespread plagues of sin in our day; sexual immorality. I hope you can
prayerfully take the time to go through this study. I pray the Spirit use it in
your life if you are caught in the web of sexual sin. I pray the Spirit helps
you to use it in other people’s lives who may be caught up in sexual sin. But I
pray God uses this teaching to bring a revival of setting captives free. God’s
word is, after all, described as “the law of liberty” (James 1:25; 2:12).
In Paul’s inspired letter to the Romans he
connects sexual immorality to the downward spiral of humanity into to ever
deepening sin. Romans chapter one gives great insight into the nature, cause,
and solution regarding sexual sin. Here is the arrow that can bring down the
beast of sexual immorality that has stampeded the land.
In the opening lines of Paul’s letter to the
Romans he says, “I am a debtor” regarding the sharing of the gospel (1:14).
Paul felt the good news of the gospel of God’s grace and salvation was so
incredibly wonderful that it would be criminal to not share it. The powerful
gracious love of Christ that he experienced compelled him to share the gospel
(2 Corinthians 5:14-15;
Romans 5:5). Why did he feel this way?
Sin is mercilessly captivating and enslaving no
matter the form it takes. It chokes the life out of the sinner. Sin works a
slow death in people. Sin can work a swift death in people too. But sin always
kills, murders, and destroys. Sin wrecks lives. Sin leaves spent bodies and
broken promises in its wake. Deviating outside the parameters of God’s truth
into sin always carries with it cancerous consequences. But there is a cure.
There is a gracious cure from God that is good news for the person bending and
near breaking under the weight of sin. The word “gospel” means good news. And the gospel of Jesus
Christ is the greatest of good news. The gospel sets sin-captives free and that
liberation by God of the sinner is what Paul was indebted to pass on to all
slaves of sin.
What was it that so impressed and moved the
apostle Paul and caused him to feel indebted to write this epistle and share
the gospel? There are four reasons stated by Paul in Romans for his feeling
this way and they are immensely pertinent to anyone caught in a lifestyle of sexual
sin.
First
Paul says, “For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ” (Romans 1:16a). Paul would not shrink back
in shame because some did not receive the gospel or God’s truth. He was not
inhibited by peer pressure or public denunciations from his enemies. He cared
more about serving God and Christ’s opinions than the opinions and opposition
of people. The philosophy of the world is often presented as one of
“tolerance.” But that tolerance is selective in that only those views that do
not challenge the comfort of those living in sin are tolerated. You have to go
with the flow of the status quo to be tolerated in the world today. Go against
that flow and you will be labeled and libeled and discriminated against in the
most intolerable ways. You will be persecuted. In some parts of the world to
point out a lifestyle or act as sin leads to a fine or prison time. That day is near if not already here in
America. Just as Paul stood and courageously proclaimed in love the truth of
God, no matter what, so should we (1 Corinthians 4; Ephesians 4:15)
Second
Paul says, “For it is the power of God to salvation for everyone”
(Romans 1:16b). The good news is that
the gospel of Christ is God’s powerful tool to save people from their sins. The
gospel empowers people to live righteous lives. That is what makes the gospel
worth sharing. We are saved from the death sentence of sin through the free
gift of eternal life received by faith in Christ (Romans 6:23). The gospel introduces us to a grace that
helps us overcome sinful lifestyles. It breaks the chains of sinful habits that
on our own we cannot overcome (Romans 5:20; 6:4, 14,22; 7:24-25; 8:1-4, 37; 1
Corinthians 6:9-11). The grace of God is able to set the sin-slave free. That’s
a great reason to share the gospel.
Third
Paul says, “For in it the righteousness of God is revealed from
faith to faith” (Romans 1:17). The gospel of God is received
by faith and lived by faith. “Righteousness” (Greek dikaioisune) refers to the
character or quality of being right or just. Righteousness was formerly
spelled “rightwiseness.” Righteousness refers to the right way things are to be done.
Righteousness is determined by God’s word. When “righteousness” is used to refer to an
attribute of God it is equated with God’s faithfulness or truthfulness (Romans
3:25-26). God is “righteous” in that He is faithful and consistent to keep His
word. God keeps His promises. When we
talk about the righteousness of God, we mean the highest, most holy, just and
good standard of what is right. Since God is the highest and holiest of all, so
is His righteous standard of governing the universe.
Part of the good news of the gospel is the bad
news of sin. Unless a person realizes the bad news of their sinful state, the
good news of God’s gospel will not be worth much to them. In the words of the
ancient church father Jerome, “You
cannot understand the antidote until you first understand the poison.”
Sin is the poison we need to identify before the
antidote of the gospel can be administered. It is the law of God that is meant
to expose the poison of sin in life. Paul wrote: “But we know that the law is
good if one uses it lawfully, 9 knowing this: that the law is not
made for a righteous person, but for the lawless and insubordinate, for the
ungodly and for sinners, for the unholy and profane, for murderers of
fathers and murderers of mothers, for manslayers, 10 for
fornicators, for sodomites, for kidnappers, for liars, for perjurers, and if
there is any other thing that is contrary to sound doctrine, 11
according to the glorious gospel of the blessed God which was committed to my
trust” (1 Tim. 1:8-11). Two sexual sins exposed by the law here are “fornicators”
and “sodomites.” Let’s look at these two
areas of sin.
The law of God states that sex outside of marriage
is sinful. Sexual activity outside of the marriage relationship is called “fornication.”
When we think of fornication we may limit our understanding to a sinful act. But the holy standard of Jesus, the
one all people will be accountable to, is something that begins in the mind.
Sin begins in our thoughts. Jesus elevated sexual sin or “lust” to our thought
life; our fantasies. He said, “You have heard that it was said to
those of old, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’28 But I say to
you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed
adultery with her in his heart.” (Matthew 5:27-28).
Sexual fantasies are not harmless; they are
sinful. Pornography, which preys on
the “pleasures” of the mind, is not harmless. It pollutes our thoughts. It
crowds out the pure thoughts God would have us meditate on (Phil. 4:8-9). We
are called to be renewed in our minds (Eph. 4:23). Those caught up in impure
sexual fantasizing need to have the gospel applied to their minds. God is able
to renew and purify our thoughts. Jesus is able to cleanse and scrub your mind
clean of the filth. He does this with the cleansing power of His word (cf. Eph.
5:26).
The word “sodomites” refers to homosexual
behavior. Homosexuality is included under the umbrella of sexual sin. God is
very clear when He states in His word, “You shall not lie with a male as with a
woman. It is an abomination” (Leviticus
18:22; See also Romans 1:18-32).
Proponents of homosexuality try to explain away
the Biblical mandates against same sex relations. They try to dismiss God’s
prohibitions based on many of the statements being in the Old Testament. But
they cannot refute the underlying principles found in the Old Testament. In
Leviticus and Deuteronomy when God provides His people with His Law He does so
in part to prepare His people to stay away from unhealthy and unholy practices
of pagan inhabitants that His people would encounter in the Promised Land of Canaan.
The Canaanites did practice homosexuality. They did practice incest, bestiality,
self -mutilation, human sacrifice and a host of other sinful behaviors. The
Canaanites were examples of what humanity degenerates into when people live
without the one true God. These sinful practices were abominable to the
Almighty Holy God. And so God called His
children to be holy, to live holy, to remain separate from the sinful
practices of the pagans in the Promised Land.
Unfortunately as people in our day have moved
further and further from God and His word they are indulging the very same
sinful practices God warned His people of leading up to their conquest of
Canaan. Humanity is not evolving into higher levels of living. Humanity is
degenerating into lower levels of sin that threaten to surpass sinful
civilizations of the past. We have a winner! But this race is not a good race.
It is a race over a cliff.
God cannot simply overlook or dismiss sin. If He
did that He would tarnish and contradict His righteousness and justice. God’s
righteousness and faithfulness to His word holds the universe in order. Pagan
gods are capricious. Pagan man-made gods are not faithful to their word. But
the God of the Bible is righteous and true. You can depend on God and His word.
That is a source of great security and comfort.
The order of the universe is based on God’s
standard of justice. Murderers will not go unpunished, nor will the greedy, the
covetous or the sexually immoral. These are, in the truest sense, crimes
against humanity. Sin causes pain and suffering. Sinful people are deceived into thinking
their sin is harmless. The Holy Spirit knows better. And the school of hard
knocks often teaches the sinner there is a consequence to sin. It’s true, “what
a man sows, that he will reap” (Gal. 6:7-9).
All sin will be recompensed justly. It would be
criminal to allow a murderer to go free unpunished. There is a penalty for
those who cause pain to others. And there is even a penalty for those who pain
themselves. We all belong to God. God created us. We have no right to harm
ourselves or others. God’s oversight of the universe does not allow for
unpunished criminals so that there is order and deterrence.
There is a penalty, a “wage” for sin that God’s
righteousness has set forth. That wage is “death” (Romans 3:23; 6:23;
Jeremiah 2:19). All those
who sin are deserving of death according to God’s standard. But God is rich in
mercy. God doesn’t give up on sinners. God loves those He has created. And
because God loves us He is posed with a dilemma. How can, how does, a righteous God reconcile sinful humanity to Himself
and still maintain His righteousness, His justice? The answer to that question
is found in Christ. By God’s grace through faith in Jesus, we can be made
righteous before Holy God (2 Corinthians 5:21). God demonstrates His own love in sending
Jesus to pay the sin debt penalty He did not owe, for sinners who owed a debt
penalty they could not pay (Rom. 5:8).
Fourth
Paul says, “For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against
all ungodliness unrighteousness” (Romans
1:18). God
provides a plan of salvation. He does so while remaining just. And it is that
justice which requires recompense. In His holy justice God administers a penalty
that fits the crime. Because God is just He cannot, He will not, He does not
simply dismiss sinful offenders. Those who refuse to receive the loving,
gracious, just and costly gospel of Christ by faith, the wrath of God is
revealed and coming against them.
God has appointed a day in which He will judge the
world in righteousness (Acts 17:31).
There will be no plea bargaining on that day. Saying you are sorry will not be
enough to gain a dismissal of the charges against you. The sinner should feel sorry
for your sin. We don’t do God a favor by being sorry for offending Him. God is
holy and just and His judgment will be fair. But He will fulfill His nature as
Holy Judge. His judgment will be just and proper. For those who rebel and
persist in denying God’s word and law and live on in sin, it will be a
frightening Judgment Day. Rebellious sinners will come before God on judgment
day and do so standing alone. They will come before the Almighty in their own
strength without Jesus as their Advocate. It will be a time of great fear and
doom (Hebrews 10:26-31). This is why
those who do know Jesus as Savior and have received the gospel and truth of
God’s word have an urgency to share the gospel with sinners. Those given
spiritual life in Christ want others to be saved from sin and receive eternal
life too. The alternative is too terrible even for the worst of enemies.
While we would rather preach and teach about the
love of God, the wrath of God is part of God’s character and gospel truth. The
holy justice of God results in the wrath of God on sinful injustices. Without
God’s wrath on sin, God would cease to be holy and loving. A God who condones
or casts a blind eye on sin is neither loving to the victims or just and
powerful to maintain His law. This is reality. God is not who we say He is or think He is. God is who He has revealed Himself to be. And He
has revealed who He is in His word. That is our only reliable source of
information. If we go to the word of God it will lead us away from our sexual
sin.
We are called to
Sexual Purity. Sexual purity is God’s will for
all people as Paul was inspired to write: “For this is the will of God, your
sanctification: that you should abstain from sexual immorality; that each of
you should know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not
in passion of lust, like the Gentiles who do not know God; that no one should
take advantage of and defraud his brother in this matter, because the Lord is
the avenger of all such, as we also forewarned you and testified. For God did not call us to uncleanness, but
in holiness. Therefore he who rejects this does not reject man, but God,
who has also given us His Holy Spirit” (1 Thess. 4:3-8).
Everyone, especially the Christian, is called to “walk to please God.” (1 Thessalonians
4:1) The Christian is held to a higher standard. A Christian cannot simply
follow the secular standard or what the world says is right or wrong. A
Christian is called to “the will of God, your sanctification.” (1 Thessalonians
4:3). “Sanctification” (Greek hagiasmos)
refers to holiness, dedication to the
Lord, dedication to moral purity (Romans 6:19, 22; 1Corinthians 1:30; 1Thessalonians 4:3, 4, 7; 2 Thessalonians 2:13; 1 Timothy 2:15; Hebrews 12:14; 1 Peter 1:2f.).
Paul points to a particular area where the
Christian is to be sanctified. That area is sexual purity. Looking at this
passage we can define such dedication to God and moral purity in the following
ways. Sanctified and acceptable behavior to God consists of:
- Each
person should know how to control their body in a way that dedicates it to
the Lord and is honorable and honoring to the Lord – 4:4
- Passionate
lust is unacceptable because it is the way of those who do not know God.
Passion for the Lord and passion to live within the parameters of God’s
word is holy. But lustful fleshly selfish passions are sinful – 4:5
- We
should not allow ourselves to be manipulated into sexually compromising
situations. We should not manipulate others into compromising sexual
situations – 4:6
- Remember,
God called us to be pure and separate, not unclean and polluted by the
world. We should guard against adopting worldly standards that compromise
by way of rationalizing so that we unnecessarily put ourselves in tempting
sexual situations – 4:7.
- Those
who reject God’s call to sanctification and sexual purity are rejecting
God’s best for them. They are rejecting God and the Holy Spirit who guides
and convicts us in such matters – 4:8.
In light of these words what should we do? We
should guard against putting ourselves in compromising situations and take
every precaution to fulfill God’s call to walk a holy and pure life, especially
in the area of sexuality.
Some are Loophole
Christians. God has promised to not allow us
to be tempted beyond what we are able. He has promised to make a way of escape
so that we can refrain from sin (1 Corinthians 10:13). That path to purity is
not to presume on the grace of God (Romans 6:1ff). We are not free to sin, but free
not to sin. We should not be looking for loopholes to justify our
indulgence in sin. We should not have an attitude that seeks to go as far as we
can while still rationalizing our “holiness” before the Lord. Such an attitude
is evidence that one has already begun the descent down the slippery slope of
sin. We need to take every precaution, make every effort, and refrain from
every questionable action that threatens God’s call to holiness (Ephesians
5:1-3).
Practically this means we need to put aside the
attitude that says, “Others are doing it, why can’t I? God will understand.”
This is the sin of presumption. Presumption is assuming immunity or God’s
approval when it is not there. We need to put the sin of presumption far from
us. We need to take the lead in purity not follow the flow of impurity. Any
dead fish can float down stream. It takes a live fish to swim against the
current.
The only place sexual contact of any kind is holy
and permissible is in the marriage relationship (between one man and one
woman), nowhere else (Hebrews 13:4). Dating, engagement nor any other state
outside of marriage is acceptable for sexual contact. It is a gigantic mistake to
disregard the cautions of God and His word in this area.
Protect Your Honor. Each person must “know how
to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor.” The word “know” (Greek ŏikĕiŏs) is a word that speaks about our dwelling, our home. We are to “know”
our bodies just like we know our home. Another word closely associated with
this is “edification” (Greek ŏikŏs).
It is a construction term that means to
build up. The point made here is
that each person is responsible to know how to handle their own body. You have
to know how to handle yourself. Know your weaknesses and avoid situations that
you are most susceptible to be defeated in. And you need to know what you need
to be built up spiritually. You need to know how to handle yourself so that you
will be sanctified or prepared and
available for God to use. This is our responsibility. The Holy Spirit will
empower us to live sanctified lives. But we have a part to play here too. We
need to live reverently so God can work righteously in us (Phil. 2:12-13).
The word “honor” (Greek time, pronounced tee-may´) means a value, valuables, of
the highest degree, or the dignity
itself . . . honour, precious, price, some. Your body and its purity are precious and you
should take every precaution to protect yourself from doing anything that would
lessen its value and preciousness. Christian your body is the temple of the
Holy Spirit. Therefore live in a way that would not embarrass the Holy Spirit
who resides in you (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).
What is Sexual
Immorality? What is “sexual immorality”? “Sexual immorality” is translated from
the Greek term porneia refers to “harlotry (including adultery and incest) idolatry . . . fornication.” [1] During the years of President
Clinton’s time in office and the Monica Lewinsky scandal he justified his
interaction with Ms. Lewinsky by interpreting “sex” as only intercourse and
therefore he reasoned the alternative sexual interaction he indulged in with
this young woman was allowable. Many youth today justify their sexual
activities similarly. The Bible makes no such distinctions. Sexual
immorality/fornication is any sexually related contact or interaction
between unmarried people or between married people with those they are not
married to. Sexual immorality/fornication is any activity that arouses passions
and lusts in those outside the holy marriage relationship. Sexual immorality is
closely connected to idolatry because a person who is willing to disregard
God’s commands concerning sexual interaction has made an idol, a god, of sex.
God promises to make a way to escape so we can
overcome the common temptations that come our way due to our natural desires.
The desire for sexual activity is from God and is good. As long as sexual
desire is used according to His plan and will in marriage, it is holy. When God
given sexual desires are provoked prematurely, purity is pummeled.
Wisdom is the ability to apply practically to life
the revealed truth of God from His word. In Proverbs it states, “Can a man take
fire to his bosom, and his clothes not be burned? Can one go upon hot coals,
and his feet not be burned?” (Proverbs 6:27-28). The context for this verse is a proverbial warning against the
deception and danger of being drawn into sexual sin by a temptress, a harlot.
But there is a broader application here. A modern day translation would be “If
you play with fire, you’ll get burned.” The natural sexual desires that God has
built into the human being to be used in marriage can be inflamed into an
inappropriate burning lust that burns up our purity. And it doesn’t take much.
A seductive look, a seemingly innocent touch, a caress, a song, a picture, an
image on the screen, words, all of these can provoke passions that are sinfully
lustful and need to be avoided. This is true for both males and females.
God loves us and He has given us sex as a
wonderful gift. But He has also prescribed certain boundaries for sexual
activity, marriage (between one man and one woman). Don’t have the attitude of,
“I can handle it.” You can’t! That is presumptuous. That is pride. God opposes
the proud. He gives grace to the humble (1 Peter 5:5). Pride goes before
destruction (Proverbs 16:18). Don’t play with fire. God loves you so much and
there’s a reason why He warns you of the dangers of playing with the fire of
sexual passions. He wants to keep you from getting burned. He wants to spare
you and others pain.
Sexual desires were meant by God to be fulfilled
with one person (of the opposite sex) to whom you have entered into a holy matrimonial
life relationship of love and commitment. Your sexual purity is a precious gift
to give to the one with whom God has ordained you spend the rest of your life.
Unfortunately many cast that precious gift of virginity aside prematurely with
those they thought they would spend
their lives with. Sadly people spend that preciously valuable virginity on the
wrong people. They waste that precious treasure on people God has not ordained
for them. There is no room for slipups with your sexual purity. If you
relinquish it, it cannot be regained. You can be forgiven by God if you indulge
this sin. But that precious gift God gave you to share with the one human you
love supremely will have been lost forever. Don’t take the chance. Submit to
God and the words of the Holy Spirit. Wait for the right person. Wait until you
are married in the sight of God. You won’t regret it.
Self -Worship and
Homosexuality. In Romans Paul continues, “who
exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature
rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.” (Romans 1:25). Paul speaks of an unholy
exchange. The word “exchanged” is
found in Romans 1:23, 25,
and 26 (also translated “change”). This word is translated from the Greek term metalasso and means, to exchange, change, alter, and substitute;
to exchange by leaving. Those
Paul is referring to here do not merely turn away from God’s truth; they
replace it with a “truth” of their own making. But this alternative “truth” is
really a “lie.” People leave God’s truth and replace it with a
“truth” that they feel comfortable with. They avoid God’s truth because it
shines a light on their sinful behavior. Rather than repent and turn from their
sin, they make up their own standard to live by. And their standard approves
their sin. Any alternative to God’s truth is a lie!
Paul is speaks of a specific lie
as indicated by the article “the.” What is “the lie”? The lie is the belief that man does not need God. This is based on
Satan’s temptation to believe that man can become God. Satan wants people to
believe they can rule their own life and destiny. Satan in the
form of a serpent deceived Eve with the words, “For God knows that in the day
you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good
and evil” (Gen. 3:5). Satan’s personal sin was to try to exalt himself above
Almighty God (cf. Isaiah 14:12-15). This lie is at the root of all sin. The lie
is rooted in sinful pride and a lust for self-sovereignty. It’s a lust to sin
and serve self regardless how it affects others. This is at the cancerous root
of all sexual sin.
“The
lie” says, “I don’t need God; God does not exist; God is not a factor; what
matters most is ME.” The lie says, “I don’t need God,” and will try to kill God or remove
God from consideration in order to accomplish the goal of self-rule. The wrath
of God is on these sinners for substituting their “truth” in place of God’s
truth. And this continues today. We see it in people who say, “God accepts me for who I am. He created me as a homosexual.
Therefore to be a homosexual is okay.” This is a perfect example of not only
misrepresenting God, but also trying to insert a falsehood in place of His
truth.
In order to attain the goal of
self-rule the sinner will try to explain away God and His word. This is
attempted in a number of ways. Here Paul points to the elevation of the creature to godhood, idols made in the image of the
creature. Idolatry is foolish (Psalm 115; Isaiah 44:9-20). God is justified in giving such idolatrous
self-worshipers up to their own rebellious preferences.
There are Vile Passions. Paul speaks of the
consequence of departing from God saying, “For this reason God gave them up to
vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is
against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman,
burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful,
and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due.” (Romans 1:26-27).
Paul says, “For this reason.” What reason? Because they refused to
receive God’s revelation truth of Himself (Romans 1:19-24). They rejected God and not only
rejected Him but twisted His truth with their own warped view of reality. And
because of this, “God gave them up to vile passions.” God allows people to not
choose to worship and thank Him. Here we see the downward spiral of
sin. “Vile passions,” are the natural consequence of rejecting God. Look around
you, what do you see in our post-Christian world? We see a host of vile
passions. When you reject God you enter into a warped view of existence. That
warped view leads you into all sorts of contorted, mangled, mixed up, hell bent
ways of seeing the world around you. Remove God and expect an anything goes world. That’s
exactly what we see today. Same-sex marriage, polygamy, transient open marriage,
are in vogue now. Is there any doubt that bestiality will be a future trend?
Paul speaks of “For even their women exchanged the natural
use for what is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use
of the woman, . . . ” When a person rejects God their sin leads
them to abuse nature and do things that are actually opposed to nature. One
function of sex is procreation. Homosexual and lesbian sexual activity is
unnatural. Such interaction contradicts and goes against nature disregarding
the procreative purpose of sex. Homosexuality and lesbianism are a perversion of natural human desires.
Turning from God and His
revelation leads to idolatry and the height of idolatry is worship of self. Homosexuality and lesbianism are
self-worship as people worship their own gender image in other people; women
with women and men with men.
Then Paul says of these people that they, “burned in their
lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving
in themselves the penalty of their error which was due.” This is the only
occurrence of this particular word for “burned” here in the New Testament. The
word “burned” is translated from the Greek term ekkaio and means burned out;
consumed; inflame deeply; or set ablaze. The idea here is that so deep is their lustful burning for one another
that they actually burn out and are consumed by their lustful pursuits. This
may allude to physical consequences (e.g. disease), emotional consequences, and
certainly spiritual consequences. Sexually transmitted diseases are a big
problem and a source of much pain and suffering for those indulging in immoral
sexual behavior.
God
created sex. Sex is not sinful. God created
sex (i.e. “one flesh” - Genesis 2:23-25).
Sex only becomes sinful when it is misused outside of God’s ordained
parameters. When sex is misused in ways God never intended it has the opposite
effect of God’s intended purpose. God intended sex to bring two people together
as one in a very wonderful way. When two people enter into sexual activity
outside of marriage a uniting takes place out of sync with the process God laid
out as right and proper.
Sex
unites. Paul warned against adultery and
sex outside of marriage because there is a uniting that occurs between the two
parties involved. Paul was inspired to write, “Do you not know that your bodies
are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them
members of a harlot? Certainly not! Or do you not know that he who is joined to
a harlot is one body with her? For “the two,” He says, “shall
become one flesh.” But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him.
Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he
who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know
that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you,
whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a
price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.” (1 Cor. 6:15-20).
Sex is a beautiful part of God’s
creation. Sexuality outside of the marriage covenant makes unholy connections.
It is Satan’s strategy to take what God meant for beauty and loving expression
between two people and turn it into something dirty and shameful. That is what
the downward spiral of sin does.
When I was a boy I enjoyed
building models. But as a young boy I was impatient and didn’t always read the
instructions or follow directions. Nowadays you can buy models that are already
painted. But in my day you had to paint the models and then assemble them. As I
would put the models together I’d sometimes get impatient. The instructions
called for me to paint certain parts in certain areas, let them dry, and
then glue them together. Inevitably my impatience would get the better of me
and I’d paint over areas I was supposed to leave paint-less and try to glue
parts together before the paint was dry. What I found is that the glue never
held pieces together that I impatiently tried to glue when the paint was still
wet. Then I’d try to take the pieces apart to wipe them clean and I’d have an
even bigger mess. When I didn’t follow instructions and acted impatiently the
model always got sticky and weakly assembled and never lasted very long. The
same is true with sex and marriage. If you try to glue two people together with
sex before the Lord prepares the parts properly your relationship will wind up
weak and likely won’t last. It’s
always best to wait on God and follow the instructions of His word (the Bible)
when it comes to marriage and sex, and everything else in life for that
matter.
There is Hope of
Deliverance from Sexual Sin. Sexual sin can
be addictive whether it manifests itself in the actual physical adulterous act
or the lustful fantasy of the mind. Trying to overcome such sin in one’s own
strength is futile and frustrating. But there is hope. As we mentioned earlier
the gospel is powerful. God is able to deliver the person caught up in sexual
sin from that sin. The Bible states: “Do you not know that the unrighteous will
not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor
idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor
revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were
washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord
Jesus and by the Spirit of our God.” (1 Cor. 6:9-11). Notice what Paul says, “But such WERE some of you.” He is inspired to speak of the sin of
the Corinthians in the past tense
because it was a thing of the past; it had been put behind them.
How were they able to put their sins behind them?
Later in the same epistle Paul writes: “No temptation has overtaken you except
such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to
be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the
way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.” (1 Cor. 10:13). God’s promise is to not allow you to be tempted
beyond what you can bear. He promises to make a way of escape so you can stand
and get through it. That’s His promise and the person caught in sexual sin
needs to pray long and hard over that verse.
God is faithful. He will show you the way out of
your sinful lifestyle or addictive habit. That way out starts with turning from
your sin to God and putting your faith in Jesus. You put your faith in Jesus by
asking God to forgive you based on His sacrifice for you on the cross. Receive
God’s forgiveness through faith in Jesus. The Holy Spirit will then give you
spiritual life; eternal life; abundant life.
In another letter of Paul’s he writes: “Brethren,
I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do,
forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things
which are ahead, I press toward the goal
for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 3:13-14). It’s time to put your sin behind you and press
on with Jesus to His higher calling (see Jeremiah 31:34; Micah 7:18-19; Romans
6:14). That means leaving your homosexuality or any other sexual sin behind. Now
is the time to put your faith in Jesus. Now is the time to seek forgiveness of
your sin based on His cross work. Now is the time to receive the eternal life
and indwelling of the Holy Spirit God promises in His gospel. The New Testament
puts it like this: “But when the kindness and the love of God our Savior toward
man appeared, not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according
to His mercy He saved us, through the washing of regeneration and renewing of
the Holy Spirit, whom He poured out on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our
Savior, 7 that having been justified by His grace we should become
heirs according to the hope of eternal life” (Titus 3:4-7). Those are wonderful
words.
A story is told of a man who purchased a white
mouse to use as food for his pet snake. He dropped the unsuspecting mouse into
the snake's glass cage, where the snake was sleeping in a bed of sawdust. The
tiny mouse had a serious problem on his hands. At any moment he could be
swallowed alive. Obviously, the mouse needed to come up with a brilliant plan.
What did the terrified creature do? He quickly set up work covering the snake
with sawdust chips until it was completely buried. With that, the mouse
apparently thought he had solved his problem. But the truth of the situation
was that sawdust chips wouldn’t hold back the snake. The solution to the
mouse’s problem came from outside of the cage. The man looked down at the
plight of the mouse and took pity on him lifting him out. In the same way, no
matter how we try to deny our sinful plight by covering up the truth of our
need, in the end the snake of sin will fatally bite us.
You
Can Have A New Heart with New Desires. In the Old Testament God promised a time when people would be able to
receive a “new heart.” We see this in the following verses: “Therefore I will
judge you, O house of Israel, every one according to his ways,” says the Lord God. “Repent, and turn from all your
transgressions, so that iniquity will not be your ruin. 31 Cast away
from you all the transgressions which you have committed, and get yourselves a
new heart and a new spirit. For why should you die, O house of Israel? 32
For I have no pleasure in the death of one who dies,” says the Lord God. “Therefore turn and live!” And
later in Ezekiel the prophet is inspired to write, “Then I will sprinkle clean
water on you, and you shall be clean; I will cleanse you from all your
filthiness and from all your idols. 26 I will give you a new heart
and put a new spirit within you; I will take the heart of stone out of your
flesh and give you a heart of flesh. 27 I will put My Spirit within
you and cause you to walk in My statutes, and you will keep My judgments and do
them” (Ezekiel 36:25-27). Those are wonderful prophetic
promises. THESE PROMISES FOR A NEW HEART ARE ALL FULFILLED IN THE GOSPEL OF
JESUS CHRIST!
This promise from Ezekiel is elaborated upon and
explained later in the book of Hebrews where it states: “But this Man, after He
had offered one sacrifice for sins forever, sat down at the right hand of God, 13
from that time waiting till His enemies are made His footstool. 14
For by one offering He has perfected forever those who are being sanctified. 15
But the Holy Spirit also witnesses to us; for after He had said before, 16
“This is the covenant that I will make with them after those days,
says the Lord: I will put My
laws into their hearts, and in their minds I will write them,” 17
then He adds, “Their sins and their lawless deeds I will remember no more.”
18 Now where there is remission of these, there is no longer
an offering for sin. 19 Therefore, brethren, having boldness to
enter the Holiest by the blood of Jesus, 20 by a new and living way
which He consecrated for us, through the veil, that is, His flesh, 21
and having a High Priest over the house of God, 22 let us
draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts
sprinkled from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water”
(Hebrews 10:12-22).
When we look at these verses from the Old
Testament illuminated by the New Testament we learn that when a person repents or turns away from
their sin and to God, trusts in “this Man” Jesus and His sacrifice, that God
will wipe our sinful slate clean. Wonderful! But not only that; Paul in Romans
states God will give us “a true heart in full assurance of faith, having our
hearts sprinkled from an evil conscience” Romans 8:9-11). God gives us a new
heart; a heart filled with the Holy Spirit.
In Paul’s second letter to the Corinthians he was
inspired to speak of how in a relationship with Jesus we become a “new
Creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new” (2
Corinthians 5:17). That’s
what we need to overcome sexual sin, a new heart with new holy desires. When
a person turns from their sinful life to God through faith in Jesus, God
promises to give them a new heart that will be receptive to His law and word.
For those who have received a new heart but
allowed it to be dirtied and tarnished once again with sin, there is continuous
ongoing cleansing available from God as we confess our sins to Him honestly and
walk on in the light of His word (1 John 1:7,9). We should always ask God to
search our hearts to expose sin so we can confess it to Him and He can keep us
clean (Psalm 139:23-24).
God has revealed His righteous plan of redemption
from sin through faith in Christ. No matter how we try to suppress or hold down
the truth that we are sinners and need a Savior, this truth cannot be denied.
The only way to be saved from sin is to turn to the One outside the cage of
this fallen world. We need to turn to God in Christ by the Spirit. If we
continue to reject and hold down God’s truth, sin will fatally bite us, (Satan
the snake is waiting – Genesis 3; Revelation 12:9; 20:2).
If by reading this you are
convicted of your sinful state and know you would be found guilty on God’s
righteous judgment day, you need to turn from your sin to God (repent) and
place your faith in Jesus Christ to save you. You can know you are forgiven and
going to heaven. You can receive a new heart filled by the Holy Spirit.
Below is a simple gospel summary
for you to follow. God didn’t make hell for people. Only people who persist in
their sinful rebellion will go there. God is reaching out to you through His
only Son Jesus. He wants to forgive your sin and save you from it. Don’t let
this gracious opportunity of God pass you by.
The Bible states you can know for sure whether or not you are
going to heaven?
- 1 John 5:13 - 13 These things I have
written to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, that you may
know that you have eternal life, and that you may continue to
believe in the name of the Son of God.
How can you know for sure?
- Realize you are a sinner –
- Romans 3:23 - 23 for all have sinned and
fall short of the glory of God,
- Galatians 3:10 - 10 For as many as are of the
works of the law are under the curse; for it is written, “Cursed
is everyone who does not continue in all things which are written in
the book of the law, to do them.”
- James 2:10 - 10 For whoever shall keep
the whole law, and yet stumble in one point, he is guilty of all.
- Realize there is a price for sin –
- Romans 6:23a - 23 For the wages of sin is
death,
- Realize Jesus
paid the price for you –
- Romans 5:8 - 8 But God demonstrates His
own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for
us. (Galatians 3:10-13).
- 2 Corinthians 5:21 - 21
For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might
become the righteousness of God in Him.
- Realize your
salvation is a free gift that requires only a heart decision from you to
receive it –
- Romans 6:23 - 23 For the wages of sin is
death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our
Lord. (Ephesians 2:8-9; Titus 3:5)
- Romans 10:10 - 10 For with the heart one
believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto
salvation.
- Realize you must now
call upon Jesus to save you –
- Romans 10:13 - 13 For “whoever calls
on the name of the Lord
shall be saved.”
A SALVATION PRAYER: “Dear God, I know I am a sinner. Please
forgive me for my sins. Come into my heart and save me. Send Your Holy Spirit
to me and help me to live the life that you have for me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
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